Dating is troublesome

One thing I did in the past, and I hope I would never ever do it again in the future is dating.

Don't judge me wrong. I'm still hoping to married and have a happy family someday. However, come from my own experience, having a relationship with the wrong girl had stopped me to get growing.

In my last 3 years with my recent ex. A lot of things had happened. We went to one place after another. But if I really rethink about what actually had happened, all I did was just to make her happy. I went to a place not because I really wanted but because she asked for it. I put aside my own needs for her and her happiness.

Compare to me now. I'm single, but I've been doing a lot of things that I really wanted to fullfil my own happiness. Join an English class that's quite expensive for me, join college, and here, I'm in Bali, are only several things as examples. I believe, if I was still with her, all of these things wouldn't happen.

That's why, as I said. I would never ever date anyone again, except one that could help me grow.