How did your parents meet?
Have you ever wondered or might ever asked your parents yourself, "How the first time did they meet?" Or let not say anything about your parents, let's change it into the best couple in the world (even though I don't think that thing truly exist). Ever wondered how did they meet?
Most of the time, they met through coincidence or something they never really set up before.
Something a bit funny happened to me twice in a short period of time. Two of the people I know or not I know so much, asked me, "I think you would be compatible to be my friend's (or sister's) boyfriend. Can I ask for your number?"
I swear. NGL. It happened!
Now I'm questioning myself. For a long time I was thinking to get a girlfriend or at least to know many pretty ladies, you need to go out and talk to as many ladies as you can. It's not totally wrong, but now I realize that this is just one way of many ways to get to Rome.
And I think the best way is the hardest way. Make yourself a better person, so ther right person would deserve a better you.
Always trying to improve yourself. Day in day out. Aim to be the best at something. By doing this, you'll force yourself to get out from your comfort zone and meet a lot of strangers (not just pretty ladies, of course). Later on, because you are already attractive (because you keep improving), one person, at least, would get interested to you.
However, always remember that the girl is your second option. The first is always yourself, your improvement and your goals. Means you're ready to abandon any girls if they are standing in your way.