"Haven't Yet "

This article's going to follow my previous article about loving yourself. In my previous article, I talked about self improvement in a way that we are no longer need self improvement because we are already perfect. We were born perfect.

Then, question arised: What happened to the area that we are actually lacking? For example, you know for a certain reason you're not good at public speaking, so do we need to accept it, or what?

Read the sentence above again, you're not good at public speaking, it sounded like you're labelling yourself, don't you think? So if you think you're not good at public speaking, maybe untill you are dead, you won't even be good at it.

So, what is a better way to approach this problem? First, accept it. You know that you're not good at public speaking, that's a good self-awareness. Next, try next time, to whatever you're lacking, do not ever do labelling again. Don't say to yourself you're not good at public speaking, say you haven't yet learned how to be a good public speaker. See the difference? These different words have a different meaning and reaction. By doing this, you're no longer see yourself lacking something, you just haven't done it yet.

The next question might be: Do I need to do the thing that I haven't done yet? That's totally up to you. But remember, only doing it because you actually like it and not trying to improve something from yourself. Because you're already perfect.